Saturday, October 23, 2010

More gains from a positive attitude

Sometimes, we enter into a situation with such a negative attitude or low expectation, the outcome is mostly predetermined. In business, there may be encounters with customers, or co-workers, or managers that you may think are going to be negative or non-productive. That attitude alone can lead to a self-fulfilling prophecy.

There are times that we have attended tradeshows or conferences or visited with remote prospects that had very low expectations. I have learned that if I enter all such situations looking for the best outcome, the experience will be much better.

I have learned from other experienced people that my attitude can help to to turn situations around. Often, we can connect with people in an unexpected way. In other words, if I expect that the outome of a meeting to be that I make a sale and anything less is disappointing, I am limiting the outcome.

On the other hand, business networks can be formed from such meetings with otherwise limited expectations. In other words, just because I do not make a sale on a sales call, I might create a useful business partnership in a way that was not expected.

Always be prepared to make the best of every situation. Always be kind and respectful in all situations so that we can make the most of it. Always have a positive attitude.

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