If you have problem people in your life, you can either 1) solve your problem with those people or 2) avoid them. Once you have invested your time in trying to mend a relationship and come to the realization that mending is just not going to happen, then move on. You don’t need to burn bridges or hate people but you don’t need to keep going down a dead end trail. Just move on. Remove the baggage of that relationship.
Whatever is worrying you that does not need worry about, consider how to fix, cure, or solve it and make that attempt. If it is not working, move on. Don’t burden yourself with unfixable situations. Often, holding on to problems leads to anger and almost inevitably, gossip. You will want to vent and people are interested in listening because human nature is to love gossip. Don’t do it, try to fix it and move on. Don’t burden yourself with people or relationships that are bringing you down. This is not for you. If you have conflicts that are not going to work out, move on. There are many other people out there interested in the real you. Connect with these people and get going on a positive track.
Get rid of baggage of burden and conflict and get on with your career and life. I am not telling you to turn your back on anyone who disagrees with you though. You know which situations and which relationships are unworkable. You will know when you should move on.
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