This may be a very difficult thing to do in any relationship, business or personal. Be the first to say I'm sorry. Be the first to make up in an argument or disagreement. If you do that most of the time, it seems to me that you win.
You don't win the argument but you do the winning thing. Actually, both parties win. If you delay making good or making up until the other person does, then neither party wins.
If a relationship is worth keeping, then be the first to save it. Of course, if the relationship is a harmful one theny there is no point to being the first to make good. You can still be the first to say I'm sorry though. This is all a part of working on your relationships. Focus on their strengths and manage their weaknesses. It works.
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